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The Dating Safety App
A date, a roommate, a new friend: Cray turns your gut feeling into a score you can trust. Private, research-backed, gossip-free, and free to start.
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74 red flags
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18 categories
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100% private
— nothing is ever posted or shared
Vibes lie. Patterns don't.
Cray helps you spot red flags before they become regrets.
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CRAYSCORE™ COMPLETE
YOUR CRAYSCORE™
104
🚩 RUN AWAY
RED FLAG BREAKDOWN
🔴 Major Flags
8
🟠 Moderate Flags
5
⚪ Other Flags
3
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🚩 74 research-backed red flags
18 behavior categories
20 university partnerships
100% private — never posted, never shared
The Toolkit
FREE
Your relationship risk, scored. The flagship reflection that finds the patterns emotions explain away.
FREE
Flags behavior tied to ulterior motives — money, sex, or control — before it costs you.
NEW · FREE
The positive counterpart: 36 green flags across 6 categories, measuring what's healthy and growing — not just what's wrong. Free, new in 2.4.
$1.99 · WEB & ANDROID
Runs a fraud lookup on a phone number in seconds. Burner numbers and scam lines, exposed. Available on the web and Android.
$7.99 · WEB & ANDROID
Searches state sex offender registries so you can verify before you meet. Available on the web and Android.
$0.99
An AI-generated read on your results — your score, translated into plain talk.
NEW · $0.99
Point it at the screenshots — PhotoScan evaluates photos against CrayScore™ and SchemerScore™ patterns. $0.99 per scan.
NEW · $1.99
Upload up to 5 screenshots of a text conversation — ConvoScan analyzes it against CrayScore™ and SchemerScore™ patterns. $1.99 per scan.
New from Red Flag Academy
A 35-minute course that teaches people to spot manipulation before it costs them. Five red flags, six blind spots, the digital threats your parents never had to learn, and what to do about all of it. Justin opens it; Crayvon, the Cray fox, hosts the rest. It ends with a certificate advisors can file and a number directors can report. Built for Greek chapters, councils and campuses, and open to anyone who wants the words before they need them.
35 MIN
Four short videos. Each segment is a 20-second sketch with the Cray Universe cast, a plain-talk decode, a pattern card, and a round of Red Flag or Nah.
14 QUESTIONS
A 14-question final, 80% to pass, unlimited retakes, and an explanation after every answer. A 5-item pre-test gives your chapter a before-and-after number.
CERTIFICATE
A PDF with your name, certificate number and one-year expiry, plus a story-size version for social. Chapters get completion reporting for the advisor and the file.
Dating & Relationship Safety
Cray is a dating and relationship safety app that helps people recognize red flags and manipulative behavior patterns early — before they become emotionally, financially, or physically costly. Through guided questions built on 74 research-backed red flags across 18 behavior categories, Cray turns what you've observed about someone into a private, structured score: your CrayScore™ for overall relationship risk, and your SchemerScore™ for behavior tied to ulterior motives.
And relationship safety isn't only about romance. Cray works for any relationship where trust is still being earned — a new date, a roommate, a friendship that feels off, a classmate, or someone you met online. The same behavior patterns that signal risk in dating (love bombing, isolation, coercion, deception) show up in social relationships too, and Cray helps you see them wherever they appear.
Everything stays private: nothing is posted, shared, or visible to anyone else — Cray is not a review app and not a background check. It's a reflection tool, built on a simple idea: vibes lie, patterns don't. Awareness is the most powerful form of protection there is, and it's teachable.
How Cray Works
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Guided questions about any relationship — a date, a situationship, a roommate — drawn from research-backed behavior categories.
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Your CrayScore™ turns your answers into a number and a verdict, with every red flag broken down by severity.
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The full report shows you the pattern — so you stop wondering if you're overreacting and start seeing what's actually there.
For Institutions
Cray partners with universities and venues to make prevention visible — before incidents, not after.
71%
of online daters say lying to appear more desirable is very common — Pew Research
Free prevention materials and Cray Certified, the 35-minute course with a certificate and a pre/post number, built for Title IX, Student Affairs, and Campus Safety teams.
Get the free PlaybookCray Protected certifies bars, restaurants, and event venues with drink covers, QR coasters, and a badge patrons trust. Kits from $99, shipped free.
Protect your venueFAQ
Cray is a relationship safety and education company. The free Cray app helps you identify red flags and manipulative behavior patterns early, before they become emotionally, financially, or physically costly, and Red Flag Academy teaches the names of those patterns through the Cray Glossary, animated shows, a live game, and the Red Flag Rock album.
Most of Cray is free. CrayScore™, SchemerScore™, and the new BaeScore™ are all free, while VibeCheck ($0.99), CatfishCheck ($1.99), OffenderCheck ($7.99), PhotoScan ($0.99 per scan), and ConvoScan ($1.99 per scan) are small in-app purchases due to data costs.
No. Cray focuses on evaluating real, observed behavior and patterns to identify risk — not past records or static data. Optional lookups like OffenderCheck can complement that picture when you need it.
No — Cray works for any relationship where trust is still being earned: dates, roommates, friendships, classmates, or someone you met online. Risky behavior patterns show up in social relationships too.
Yes — 100% private. Nothing you enter is posted, shared, or visible to anyone else, and no one is notified if you run a check. Cray is not a review app.
Answer guided questions about what you've actually observed in any relationship. Cray scores the patterns against 74 research-backed red flags and gives you a CrayScore™, a severity breakdown, and a full report.
Merch
The It's Not Always This Obvious title card tee, Kip, and the Red Flag Rock stickers. Any three stickers, 33% off, no code needed.
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